Dixit Maeterlinck I [en]

La force active d’un événement ne se trouve que dans la manière dont on envisage cet événement.

Maurice Maeterlinck, La sagesse et la destinée

Entre gris clair et gris foncé [en]

It is a mistake to judge relationships or events as “overall good” and “overall bad”. Everything has good sides and bad sides. Summing up to just one of them will only contribute to repressing the other into darkness and denial.

There are times when one has to look at the “good” and the “bad” in things independantly – although of course they are never independant.

Looking back at all I have been through, I tend to say that everything was “overall good” because it has brought me where I am – and I am happy of where I am.
But it doesn’t mean I didn’t suffer. And even though it made me grow, it doesn’t mean I am happy with this pain, or that it doesn’t touch me as pain.

Understanding and loving someone who hurt us should not prevent us from dealing with the pain this person has caused. And that means putting love and understanding into brackets.

Googling Them [en]

Two online articles I found via Google, which mention Somak (and Aleika).

A little net-search brought up two interesting articles: one is about Somak and Aleika’s departure for Birmingham, and the other is an account of a talk I can remember him going to England for.

For the record, Somak and Aleika (let’s not forget Akirno!) are the people who shared my life while I was in India.

Human [en]

Finally, everybody has something to say. Everybody has a voice. Some will appeal to more people, and therefore be more popular – but even the meekest is bound to create an echo in others.
For we are all human beings, and I believe there is a fundamental unity between us – a little bit of “me” in the “other”.

Church of Scientology… Not [en]

Operation Clambake is a very well-documented site on the Church of Scientology.
I’ll review it for Astoundingweb once I have explored it enough to do it justice.